What are We?

So Many Mirrors

Painting: Edward Burne-Jones

Believe in His Love

Love Consists in This

With Great Love

A Long Act of Love

St. Elizabeth of the Trinity - pray for us on this, your day of canonization

Hungry for Love

To the Bath

If We Must Love

How to Celebrate Valentine's Day

The Language of Divine Love

My Vocation, At Last I Have Found It

Where Is My Heart?

'God will love you, of course, even though you do not love Him, but remember if you give Him only half your heart, He can make you only fifty percent happy. You have freedom only to give your heart away. To whom do you give yours? You give it either

to the moods of the hour, 
to your egotism, 
to creatures, 
or to God.'

Archbishop Fulton Sheen 




Painting: Guy Rose, in US public domain due to age

Revisiting Honey

Most people don't realize who they're quoting when they speak of catching more flies with honey than with vinegar.  I was well into adulthood when I learned that this bit of wisdom had come from one of my favorite saints. 

'You can catch more flies with a spoonful of honey than with ten barrels of vinegar.' (St. Francis de Sales)

I often think of this in connection with another quote from this Doctor of the Church.   

'It is an act of of charity to cry out against the wolf when he is among the sheep"  (St. Francis de Sales)  

These two thoughts may not appear to have much to do with one another.  But in my mind, they work together.  In fact, I often strive to "navigate between them," as one might drive between two lines painted on a highway to keep vehicles moving safely. 

As one of Our Lord's sheep, I have seen wolves come amongst us, oh - so many times.  In saying this, I'm not thinking of people, but of ideas and ungodly "values" that creep in, usually in sheeps' clothing.  They enter in the name (very often) of freedom, tolerance, rights, prosperity, pleasure, modernization, fairness, justice for all.  Not wanting to be unkind, we can let them prowl freely among our families and groups without our uttering so much as a whisper of protest.  We don't want to rock boats, ruffle feathers, stir waters, or cause anyone to be uncomfortable.  Besides, we don't want to appear, well... you know.  Uncool.  Behind the times.  Uncharitable. 

It can take a lot to not go along with the popular, trendy wolves.  But if we know the truth and refuse to share it, are we acting in genuine charity toward the sheep?  Francis would say no.

However, there are a couple of ways of sharing.  We can lash out in anger, in sharp words that can sting and personally wound our "opponents"... in other words, we can dish out the vinegar.  Or...

we can speak in honeyed tones.  Not in fake ones, but in words and actions that carry a genuine kindness that enables our fellow sheep to hear.  After all, ears tend to turn off at the sound of vinegar.  The truth we're trying to communicate can pass by totally unheard if we allow frustration and anger to "vinegar-ize" what we say.  

We all know there are wolves of ungodly values running rampant.  I don't have to name them; we see them everywhere. They rob children of innocence, families of stability, societies of integrity, preborn babies of life, and individuals of eternity spent with God.  The cost of silence could be staggering.

But we dare not speak without honey.

We dare not speak without love.

'I take in my hands the two rays that spring from Your merciful Heart; that is, the blood and the water; and I scatter them all over the globe so that each soul may receive Your mercy...'  (St. Faustina)

This was first posted here in 2012. I share this slightly edited version as part of "It's Worth Revisiting Wednesday." Click this line to find gems from other Catholic bloggers.







© 2015 Nancy Shuman
thebreadboxletters.blogspot.com

A Heart Set on Fire

'As a flame increases when it is constantly fed, so prayer, made often, with the mind dwelling ever more deeply in God, arouses divine love in the heart.  And the heart, set on fire, will warm all the inner man, will enlighten and teach him, revealing to him wisdom, and making him like a flaming seraph always standing before God in his spirit, always looking at Him within his mind, and drawing from this vision the sweetness of spiritual joy.'

St. Dmitri of Rostov




Painting: Georges de la Tour

Love in Heaven

'If love, even human love, 

gives so much consolation here, 

what will love not be like in heaven?'

St. Josemaria Escriva

Painting:William Adolphe Bouguereau, Maternal Admiration

Nothing is Small

'Remember that nothing is small in the eyes of God. 

Do all that you do with love.'

St. Therese of Lisieux

Painting: Jean-François Millet

In Need of Thread

'All that exterior activity 

is a waste of time if you lack love. 

It's like sewing with a needle and no thread.'

St. Josemaria Escriva

Painting: Philip Wilson Steer

To Find Him

'To fall in love 
with God 
is the greatest 
of all romances;
to seek Him, 
the greatest adventure;
to find Him, 
the greatest 
human achievement.'

St. Augustine








Painting:  Edward John Poynter, Sweet Pea Blossoms

Watchword

'Jesus longs
for generous souls
whose watchword is
self-sacrifice,
not self-comfort.'



(from Fervorinos From the Lips of the Master, compiled by a Religious, Pelligrini, Australia, 1940, p. 65)


Painting: Anker Die Andacht
des Grossvaters 1893